A Natural Hospital Birth {After a Previous Medicated Hospital Birth}

by Birth Without Fear on March 6, 2013

I had my first son at the age of 20. I knew that I wanted a natural birth, but was completely uninformed of my rights and the process in general. I found out a year later that the nurses at our local hospital would do anything imaginable to get laboring mothers to get the epidural and essentially sleep through labor…

I was admitted to the hospital dilated to 4 and contracting every 2 minutes. Right away they started me on IV fluids and my contractions slowed to every 10 minutes. They did not allow me to walk, use a birthing ball, or even sit up. I was instructed to lie down so the monitors would stay on, even though I was not a high risk pregnancy. They then started me on Pitocin 30 minutes later (without explaining anything to me) to speed the process back up after the fluids slowed it down. I had a horrible time on the Pitocin, including my contractions spiking off the charts, and it inhibiting my ability to breathe to such a measure that I had to be placed on oxygen. After an hour on the Pitocin the nurses were telling me that I was stressing out my son and I wouldn’t deliver for at least another 12 hours, and that I was going to have to have a c-section (all completely fictional statements!). I was presented with the choice of epidural or C-section. During this time my doctor was delivering other babies, so we made the choice to get the unwanted epidural to avoid a cesarean birth. In the 30 minutes it took to get the epidural I dilated from 5 cm to 10 cm and the epidural kicked in as my son was moving down the birth canal. I was furious and felt as though I had been robbed of the experience I so desperately wanted.

I was determined to do it differently second time around (four years later).

My OB, the same one I used last time, had recently acquired a midwife, and I elected to see her during my pregnancy. Early on I started watching YouTube videos of natural births to familiarize myself with the process and mentally prepare. I also did research such as discovering the right to not have IV fluids as long as it was not medically necessary (to only have an IV hook up with a heparin block),  the right to walk/use a birthing ball, refuse to lay on the monitor, and not cut the cord until it stopped pulsing. I talked extensively with my midwife about all if this and luckily she was in complete agreement with my desire for a natural birth. Needless to say, my experience was completely different with my second son.

In spite of a 2 lb weight difference, I didn’t tear at all with my second (my cervix ripped as well as my perineum with my first, the cervical rip was an unfortunate result if the Pitocin). I was able to get up and walk around right after birth and felt like my old self by the next morning, where as it took 8 weeks to feel back to normal after all of those chemicals were put into me during my first birth. For 3 months postpartum after my first birth I lost red and white blood cells in my urine, had a blood pressure if 80/40, horrible back pains and massive headaches, as well as low nutrients in my breast milk and “flat nipples”,  an unfortunate side effect of Pitocin which caused my son to be unable to latch on in order to breast feed.

I had none of these problems with my natural birth. Yes, it hurt horribly, but not as bad as I thought. I didn’t psych myself out and was able to use breathing and focus to keep calm up until the end. My midwife let me essentially deliver my son myself, pulling him out and onto my chest myself. I can’t describe the euphoric feeling of accomplishment, pride, and wonder I felt after my natural experience, and would highly recommend at least trying it to anyone who is willing to listen. We are currently a month postpartum and a breast feeding champ!

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Karrie March 6, 2013 at 9:49 am

Beautiful story! Well done Mama!

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Rebekah March 6, 2013 at 2:50 pm

Hi I’d love to speak with you I’m 16 weeks along with my 3rd child and I’m using a midwife for the first time I have some questions and haven’t been able to talk to anyone else about going this route. Thanks

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Katie Nelson March 6, 2013 at 4:52 pm

First congrats on getting what you wanted!!! My birth with my son sounded just like yours ad so did postpartum. I can only hope for what you had with your second with my second, when I get the chance to have an

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Brianne March 13, 2013 at 7:19 am

Thank you for sharing your beautiful story! It gives me hope.

I had all intentions of a natural birth with my daughter 2 years ago. I went in with a birth plan (no iv, intermittent monitoring so as to be able to move around, no epidural-don’t even offer it) and was then started on fluids in early labor (despite the major amounts of water I was already drinking on my own). I was also made to lay down to keep the monitors on, which made the contractions so much harder to deal with. My nurse offered me something to “take the edge off” in my IV and I reasoned with myself that it wasn’t the epidural and it would help me rest. It did, for about half an hour, and then it wore off. I asked for more, and my nurse informed me that it wouldn’t do much this time around. I was at 5 centimeters and told I probably wouldn’t deliver until morning. I asked for the epidural. I was stuck laying down, exhausted, and had now feeling like I had to rely on medication, and not myself, to get through my labor pains. Within 15 minutes of getting the epidural, I was at 10 and ready to push. I thought all this time that I went to 10 because of the epidural, but your story makes me wonder if I had held out maybe 20 minutes longer, if I would have had the natural birth I intended to have.

I am now pregnant with my second child and fully intend to try for a natural labor again. I plan to be more vocal with my intentions to not have an IV, and to have intermittent monitoring. Like I said, your story gives me hope. Thank you.

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Lacey March 13, 2013 at 12:21 pm

Next time around, try Hypnobabies birthing classes. I really, truly believe that birth does not have to be painful.

I never did the hospital birth route because I had other women in my life who did it and rejected it, so I had dd at home last October. My 1st contraction was at 5:55 am. At 9:30, I went into work. At 4:00 my water broke and I called my husband to come get me and bring me home. During that time I didn’t almost even know I was in labor. I did experience some brief, intense pain (for about half an hour after running home, calling the midwife, doula, my mom, the housing office to get temp parking permits… so I didn’t use my hypnobabies training during that time which I believe lead to the pain in transition that followed). At 5:55pm baby M was born.

It was really relatively pain-free and quite comfortable most of the time. I don’t believe it has to hurt.

I loved my hypnobabies birth so much. I highly recommend trying it for a comfortable, easy, blissful childbirth.

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Gari-Anne Smith March 13, 2013 at 1:43 pm

I am so happy to hear of natural child birth stores being done in the hospital! I am 37 weeks pregnant planning on the same thing with a great OB who will let me do pretty much whatever. I am so excited to share all that will take place at ours! Thank you for sharing yours! It has encouraged me!

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